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Rami Beracha has created this blog to explore the business of venture capital. Rami is the co-founder and CEO of Sosa.
The issue of miscommunication is very significant. It’s like an open-air minefield. It begins seconds after making contact and culminates in an amazing explosion…
Our biggest error is that we assume total agreement in our expectations but never bother to comprehend our partner’s expectations. We are almost always completely in sync with our partner , with the exception of one thing : he doesn’t miss an opportunity to increase the gap in expectations . We’re not notified by anyone.
There are a variety of reasons for communication issues, but they are generally related to our different personalities. People with square personalities are more likely not to communicate with people who are liberal. Affirmative personalities may be unable to reconcile their expectations with those of passive personalities. This is easy to recognize and everyone is aware of that they are squared from the liberal, and passive from the aggressive.
What if they were completely different? It is possible that there exists an individual gap in personality that we aren’t aware of. Nobody has ever traced it or warned about it, investigated it…NOT even been frightened! !
Rami Beracha
I’d like to introduce you, ladies and gentlemen the new type of personality we have in common: the FULL-CIRCLE personality versus people who belong to the half circle! !
Rami Beracha
Note: A behavioral guideline as you read the coming analysis try to figure out which one of the two personalities most accurately describes you as well as attempt to determine which one of your friends is. You might be shocked to discover that your personalities are different. As Bono sang, “we are one, however, we’re not exactly the same.” It’s a good sign because it could indicate that you’ve discovered the cause of many of your differences. If, however, you are identical in your appearance and you’re both of the same type, then I’m not able to explain why your relationships look so awful.
Let’s get going…
Rami Beracha
Humans are divided into two categories. Certain people are “full-circle”, which is a self-contained individual who feels perfectly at home being all by his own. Yes, he wants to connect with other people and sure, he’s always seeking an individual to share his experiences with. Absolutely! It’s all true … However, he will have to live without his dream partner until he finds one. After he has found his ideal partner, he wants to share his life with his hopefully complete circle of friends.
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The other aspect of humanity is comprised of the “half-a-circle” kinds that are (no this isn’t full circles that have been damaged in the course of the delivery) (see below) … It’s true they require partners and yes, they need a partner badly, indeed, they are in constant searching, even religious, for a partner… and yes it’s the same as matters of national security to find their partner because they just cannot survive without one. They’ll never let go of the idea once they have found their miserable companion. To form a joyful circle, they be able to almost join their victims… But don’t allow them to do this absurdity of living together! The Halves will never sacrifice their affection for one another. They will gaze at each other in the same way from the distance for the rest of their lives. Their desire to merge with their spouse and create a whole will only be fulfilled by an intimate relationship.
An interesting distinction between the two types relates to the decision to leave an individual partner. The whole circle tends to be quick to let go of the partner with whom they’ve lost their chemistry. On the other hand half-circles will alter the definition of chemistry between two people to mean – “I hold onto this B..ST..RD. until I can replace him with an upgrade.”
Imagine the fantastic dance that occurs when a “half” and “full” circle try to be their partner. They are not aware of their different perspectives. The Half makes two leaps forward, far from the comfort zone of his Full, who considers this sudden invasion of his personal space a little too frightening. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. But the problem is that he did the Half move out of his comfort area …… The Half is aware that the Full made an innocent error, so he makes another step backward.. However, the Half quickly gets angry and takes a bigger, more aggressive step.. They don’t know why however, they don’t have the proper terminology and can’t describe it. Therefore, they head to the wrong place. It would be a lot easier for them to live if they had known the difference between half and full.
While there isn’t any one answer, there are many actions that can be taken.
1. Find out who you are.
2. Find out who your partner really is.
3. Be aware of the differences.
3. Respect the differences!
Rami Beracha
In reality, there’s only one possible conclusion.
