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Miscommunication is a big problem. It’s like a minefield. It starts one second after the initial interaction with someone and ends with a massive explosion…
Our biggest error is when we believe that there is complete alignment in each other’s expectations, without ever trying to comprehend our partner’s expectations. There’s one thing that we are completely in agreement with our partner on the other hand – he never misses an opportunity to expand the gap in expectations. …. And no one is there to inform us about the imminent confrontation.
Rami Beracha
There are many reasons for miscommunications, and most of them are related to our personalities. People with square personalities are more likely to miscommunicate frequently with liberal personalities. Affirmative personalities might find it difficult to align expectations with passive individuals. This is easy to recognize and everyone is aware of that they are squared from liberal and passive from aggressive.
What if they were completely different? Think of the personality gap. Nobody has ever traced it or warned about it, investigated it…NOT EVEN FREUD! !
Rami Beracha
Ladies and gentlemen! Let me present to you a new personality one that we all share. The characters of the FULL CIRCLE differ from the half CLIRCLE characters. !
The analysis designed to provide guidance for your behavior. As you read this report, you’ll be able to determine the personality that best describes you. You can also try to identify your partner in the life. If you discover that you’re of two different kinds – as Bono sings “we are one but we’re different” If you do, then be thrilled because you may have found the root-cause for the differences between you! If however, you’re identical in your appearance, then I’m sorry that I can’t help but to provide a reason for the reasons why your relationships look awful.
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Here we are…
רמי ברכה
Humans are split into two categories. There are two kinds of people: the ‘full circle’ type, who is totally self-contained and feels completely at ease being by themselves. Sure, he’s required to be with someone, and he’s seeking one. Absolutely! This is absolutely true. … However, until he’s found his dream partner, he CAN survive without one. He is determined to share his life with his partner, and he is hopeful to make it to the end of his circle.
Half-a-circle people make up the remaining half of humankind. When they discover the miserable animal and they are unable to ever let it go! They will attempt to live with the victim as if were one of them and will not let go of the idea of living together. The Halves will never compromise their love for each other. They will stare at each other in the same way in the distance, and then remainder of the time. Anything less intimate will give them the desire to connect with the other half and create a whole.
A notable distinction between these types is the decision to let go of a partner. The entire circle will undoubtedly be able to let go of a person who is losing their connection quickly. Half-circles on the other hand will redefine the concept of ‘having chemistry’ with their partners to be: ‘I’m hanging onto this B..ST..RD. until I am able to replace him correctly’.
Imagine the amazing dance happening when two people, a “half-a-circle” and a “full-circle” attempt to make one each other his partner, not being conscious of their distinct geometries: the Half joyfully moves two steps ahead, way past the comfort zone of the Full, who considers this unwelcome invasion of his personal space bit intimidating. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He took the Half out of his comfortable zone . Even though the Half believes that the Full made an innocent wrong move, and he was kind enough to compensate by taking a second step forward, the Half becomes more worried and starts to feel irritated. The Half and the Full know why but lack proper terminology. They’re unable to adequately explain their feelings, so they search at the wrong things. They could have saved their lives by knowing that one is Half and the other is Full.
Although there isn’t a single answer, there are many ways to go about it.
1. Find out who you are.
2. Learn who your partner is
3. Be aware that there is a big distinction.
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3. Respect differences!
One thing to remember is to live and let the life flow.