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Rami Beracha writes about the world of venture capital. Rami is co-founder of Sosa.

It’s a big problem when people don’t understand. I’d say it’s kind of a minefield that we have created .. It starts just seconds after our first interaction with someone and culminates in an incredible explosion…

Our biggest error is when we believe that there is complete agreement in our expectations but never bother to understand our partner’s expectations. However, there is one thing that we nearly always are in agreement on: he won’t overlook the chance ….to increase the expectations gap We don’t even need anyone to warn us of the imminent conflict.

There are many reasons behind communication issues. They’re usually due to our personality. People with square personalities are more likely to communicate in a misguided manner more than liberal people, while aggressive personalities may have difficulty matching their expectations to those of passive individuals. This is easy to see that squared personalities can be distinguished from liberals, and aggressive is a distinct thing from passive.

They may not even realize they’re so different. It is possible that there exists a personality gap, which is not known about. It has never been discovered and has never been reported or studied by anyone. !

Ladies and gentlemen, let me introduce you to the different personality types The FULL and the half circle people! !

Note : This analysis is intended to provide behavioral guidance. After reading this analysis, you will be able identify the personality that best describes you. Also, you can try to determine your spouse in your life. If you realize that you are of distinct types and you are not happy. It could be the reason behind the differences you have. If, on the other hand you’re of the same kind and you’re not sure why, I’m sorry to say that I can’t help you understand the reason why your relationships appear to be shit…

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Here we begin…

Two distinct groups of people can be classified as human. There are those who are “full-circle’ who are a self-contained person who is completely at home all by his own. Yes, he needs a partner, yes there is a need for a partner and yes, he’s in perpetual search of the right partner. Absolutely! All true … He is still able to survive without the perfect partner. He would like to live his life with his partner and is hoping to complete his circle.

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Half-a-circle-shaped people comprise the other half of the human race. They will not let go after they’ve found their unhappy companion. They’ll attempt to live with their victim as if were one of them and will not let go of the idea of living together. The Halves aren’t willing to give up anything less than starring one at the other from a zero distance throughout their lives. They will not accept something less intimate to meet their need to join with the other half and make a complete.

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A fascinating observation of the two types of people is the decision to leave a partner. The entire circle will undoubtedly let go of a partner who has lost their chemistry rapidly. The half-a–circle’ types on the other hand redefine the concept of ‘having an chemistry’ with their partner to be: ‘I’m holding on to this B..ST..RD. until I can replace him in a proper manner’.

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Imagine the amazing dance in which two “half a-circle”, and a ‘full-circle”, are trying to compete and not even noticing their distinct geometries. The Half smiles and takes two steps ahead. The Full finds the unwelcome intrusion slightly scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He took the Half out of his comfort zone . Although the Half believes that the Full made a error, and kindly compensated by making another step forward, the Half becomes more concerned and begins to get angry. They cannot explain their pain and have no idea why. They could have been spared if they had known that the answer they’re seeking is Half, and the other one is full.

While this piece is not meant to be a complete outline, there are a few steps you can take.

1. Find out who you are.

2. Find out who you are with

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3. Be aware of the difference.

3. Respect that different!

actually, one conclusion: Live and let live.