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This is the blog of Rami Beracha about venture capital world. Rami is co-founder of Sosa.

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Communication is one of the biggest issues. It could be a dangerous hazard and is entirely our fault. It begins one second after the first contact is made with another person, and concludes with an amazing explosion…

Our biggest error is always assuming complete alignment in expectations for both sides. We don’t try to pick out our partner’s mind to find out what his expectations are. One thing is certain however: our partner will not miss an chance to expand this gap . And no one is there to warn us about the imminent confrontation.

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There are many causes of confusion. They’re usually due to our personal personas. People who are squared are more likely than liberal personalities to miscommunicate, and aggressive personalities might have trouble aligning expectations with passive. But, this isn’t difficult to identify – we all know the distinction between liberal and squared and passive and active.

What if they were different? Imagine that there’s a type of personality gap that exists, but we are not aware of. No one has ever discovered it and warned of it, or investigated it…NOT even been frightened! !

I’d like to introduce you, ladies and gentlemen to a new type personality we all have the FULL CIRCLE characters as opposed to the HALF-CIRCLE people. !

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This analysis offers guidelines for behavior. Find out which personality best describes your personality and then determine the person who is your partner. If you realize that you are of different kinds – as Bono song says “we are one however we’re different” – then you should be extremely happy as you might have discovered the reason behind many of your differences! If however you’re of the same kind I’m sorry, but I can’t help you understand why your relationships are nothing but shit…

So, here we begin…

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Humans are divided into two categories. Some of us fall into the “full-circle” category that is a person who is completely self-sufficient and does not feel like needing an accomplice. Sure, he would like to be a part of a group, and sure, he’s always looking for an individual to share his experiences with. Absolutely! It’s all true … However, he’ll never be able survive without the right companion. Once he has found his ideal partner, he wants to live his life shoulder-to-shoulder with his hopefully complete circle – partner.

The other human side is made up of “half-a-circle” types – (no it’s not full circles that have been damaged during the birth) (see below) … It’s true they require an accomplice, yes, they want an ally desperately, indeed, they are always in a constant searching, even religious, to find a suitable partner… and yes, it’s as important for national security to find their perfect partner since they can’t survive without one. They will not let go of the savage creature after they have found it. To form an encircling circle, they’ll attempt to join their victim physically. They will not compromise their desire to be capable of looking at each with each other for the rest of their lives. It’s impossible for them to feel more intimate than that.

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The choice to let go is an ordinary occurrence. The whole circle is likely to be able to let go of a person who is losing their connection quickly. The half-circle type will however redefine the meaning of having the same chemistry as their partners. They’ll say they’re ‘holding onto this B..ST..RD until they are able to replace him with an version.

Imagine to yourself the unbelievable dance taking place in the moment a “half-a-circle” and a “full-circle” are trying to be the other’s partner, but not aware of their different geometries: the Half joyfully moves two steps ahead, way past the comfort zone of the Full who finds this sudden entry to his personal zone a little too frightening. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. But the problem is that he did the Half step outside of his familiar zone …… The Half is aware that the Full has made an error that was not his fault, and the Half takes a second step backwards.. But the Half soon becomes upset and begins to take an even bigger and more aggressive step.. They know why, but because they don’t have the correct terms to explain their madness and turn to the wrong places. They could have saved their lives if they understood the difference between Half and Full.

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While this piece is not intended to be a comprehensive outline, there are a few steps you could take.

1. Find out who you really are

2. Find out who your partner is

3. Realize that there is a big difference.

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3. Respect the difference!

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In reality, there’s only one conclusion.