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Rami Beracha blogs about the world of venture capital. Rami is also the Co-Founder at Sosa.

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It’s a big problem that people do not understand. It’s a minefield of our own making. It’s a matter of seconds after the first interaction with someone and ends with an impressive explosion…

The biggest error we make is to assume that we are completely aligned in our expectations for each other without trying to figure out what our partner expects from us. One thing we can have in common is that our friend does not miss the chance to increase the gap in expectations ….. We don’t even need anyone to warn us of the imminent conflict.

There are many causes of miscommunications and they are mostly caused by our personalities. Square personalities are more likely miscommunicate frequently with liberal personalities. People who are aggressive may struggle to align their expectations with passive personalities. This isn’t difficult to identify – we all recognize squared from liberal and aggressive from passive.

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What if they were very different? Imagine the personality gap. There is no one who has noticed it and warned others about it, investigated it…NOT be a FRAUD! !

Ladies and gentlemen! Let me present to you a new personality type that we all share. The personalities of the FULL CIRCLE differ from the HALF CLIRCLE personalities. !

The analysis designed to provide guidance for your behavior. After reading this analysis, you will be able to identify which personality describes you best. You can also try to identify your spouse in your life. If you find that you are of two distinct types, like Bono declares “we’re two, but not the same” If you do, then you ought to feel happy. You might have discovered the root-cause of some of the differences between you! If you’re on the other side, you are of the same kind, then I’m sorry but I’m unable to help you comprehend why your relationships are shit…

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We are here…

Humans are divided into two distinct groups. Certain of us are “full-circle” type who are self-contained and is completely comfortable by himself. He needs a partner. Absolutely! All true … It is possible to live without the perfect partner. He will continue to live his life with his new partner once he finds one.

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The “half-a circle” type is the other aspect of humankind. (No, it’s not full-circle that was damaged during the birth). Once they’ve found the miserable creature, THEY will not give up! To create an encircling circle, they will try to integrate their victim physically. The Halves will never sacrifice their affection for one another. They will stare at each one another in the same manner from the distance for the rest of their lives. It is impossible for them to feel more connected than that.

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An interesting observation among the types is how they decide to part ways with their companion. A partner who is no longer chemistry-wise with the full circle will be let go in a natural way by the entire circle. On the other hand, half-circle types redefine the meaning of chemistry between two people to be – “I hold onto this B..ST..RD. until I am able to replace him with a new upgrade.”

Imagine the amazing dance when two “half a-circle”, and a ‘full-circle” are trying to compete without being aware of their differing geometrical shapes. The Half smiles and takes two steps in the direction of. The Full considers the unwelcome intrusion a bit scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He took the Half out of his comfort zone . Although the Half thinks that the Full was innocent and made a error, and was kind enough to compensate by taking a second step forward, the Half becomes more concerned and begins to feel irritated. The Full and the Half understand why, but aren’t using the correct terminology. They can’t properly explain their feelings, so they search at the wrong things. They could have saved their lives being aware that one is Half and the other is Full.

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There isn’t any single solution, there are some steps you can do.

1. Find out who you are

2. Discover who is your partner really is.

3. Recognize that there is a distinction.

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3. Respect that difference!

actually, one conclusion that is true: Live and let live.