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Rami Beracha’s blog is about the venture capital industry. Rami is co-founder of Sosa.

The issue of miscommunication is very significant. It’s a minefield that we’ve made. It begins a second after making contact with a person and then ends with an astonishing explosion…

The biggest mistake we make is when we believe that there is complete agreement in our expectations, without ever trying to understand the expectations of our partner. We’re usually completely in sync with our partner , with the exception of one thing : he doesn’t overlook the chance to increase the gap in expectations . There’s no one to tell us about the imminent confrontation.

There are many reasons for miscommunications, and most of them have to do with our personality. People who are squared are more likely than liberal individuals to miscommunicate, and people who are aggressive might have difficulties aligning expectations with passive. This is easy to see the difference between squared from liberals, and aggressive individuals can be distinguished from passive.

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What if they were different? Imagine to yourself that there’s a type of a personality gap which exists, but we are not aware of. This isn’t something anybody has researched or even identified. !

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Let me introduce to you, ladies and gentlemen the new type of personality we have in common with the FULL-CIRCLE persona versus those from the HALF circle! !

Note: This study provides the ability to make better decisions about your behavior. Try to figure what personality best represents who you are, and then try to find out the person who is your partner. If you find that you’re of two different kinds – as Bono song says “we are one however we’re not the same” – then you should be extremely happy as you might have discovered the reason behind many of your differences! If you’re on the other side, you are of the same kind I’m sorry, but I’m unable to help you comprehend why your relationships are shit…

So here we are…

There are two kinds of human beings: humans. There are two kinds of human beings: the ‘full circle’ type, who is totally self-contained and is completely comfortable in their own space. Sure, he’s required to be with someone and he’s in search of one. Absolutely! It is all true … But, he can survive without the perfect partner until he does. He is determined to spend his entire life with his beloved and is determined to make it to the end of his circle.

The other aspect of humanity is comprised of the “half-a-circle” kind of people – (no, it’s not full circles that were damaged during the delivery) (see below) … Yes, they need partners and yes, they need to find a partner very badly, and yes, they’re always in a constant and almost religious search for a partner… and , yes, it’s the same in terms of national security to locate their ideal partner as they can’t survive without one. When they find the miserable animal, they DO NOT LET GO! To create the illusion of a happy circle, they’ll try to make their victim feel more physically. The Halves will never sacrifice their love for each other. They will stare at each with the same gaze from the distance for the remainder of the time. Only intimacy will fulfill their desire to be connected with each other and make a whole.

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The decision to let go is an everyday occurrence. The full circle is likely to be quick to let go of the partner with whom they’ve lost chemistry with. Half-circles on the other hand redefine the idea of having chemistry’ with their partners to be: ‘I’m holding the B..ST..RD. until I am able to replace him correctly’.

Imagine the incredible dance between the “half-a circle” and a full-circle. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The problem is that he took half of his comfort zone …. and, while the Half was certain that the Full was making an innocent error, the Half begins getting angry and takes a step forward. They know why, but because they don’t have the correct terminology they can’t adequately explain their rage and go towards the wrong direction. They could be a lot easier for them to live if they had known the difference between the Half and Full.

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Although there isn’t a single conclusion, there are a few options you could do.

1. Find out more about who are

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2. Find out who your real partner is

3. Realize there is a difference.

3. Respect that distinction!

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One conclusion could be drawn”Live and let live..