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Rami Beracha writes about the venture capital world. Rami is the co-founder and CEO of Sosa.

Communication is a huge issue. I would dare say that it’s a dangerous hazard that we created .. It starts a second after we make the first contact with someone and is concluded with a spectacular explosion…

Our greatest mistake is that we assume total alignment in each other’s expectations but never bother to understand the expectations of our partner. We’re almost always completely in sync with our counterpart, minus one aspect : he doesn’t miss an opportunity to widen this expectation gap . No one is there to inform us about the coming clash.

רמי ברכה

There are many reasons for confusion, and many of them are related to our personalities. People with square personalities are more likely to miscommunicate with those who are liberal, while aggressive personalities will find it difficult to reconcile expectations with passive ones. It is simple to recognize that squared personalities can be distinguished from liberals, and aggressive individuals can be distinguished from passive.

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However, they might not realize that they are so different. Think about if there is an individual gap. No one has ever discovered it or warned about it, or investigated it…NOT even EVER FREUD! !

רמי ברכה

Let me introduce you, gentlemen and ladies an entirely new kind of personality that we share with the FULL-CIRCLE persona versus people who belong to the half circle! !

Note – A behavioral guidance – when you read the following analysis, attempt to determine which one of the two personalities define you the best, and at the same time attempt to determine the person who your life partner is. You may be surprised find that your personalities are different. Like Bono said, “we are one, but we are not exactly the same.” It’s a good sign because it could mean that you’ve found the root cause of many of your different personalities. If, however, you are identical in your appearance, then I’m sorry that I’m unable to tell you the reason why your relationships appear so terrible.

Let’s start…

Two groups of humans can be described as human. There are two types of humans that are the full circle kind, who is completely self-contained and feels completely at ease being alone. Yes, he does need a partner. Absolutely! all true! … But, until he’s found his dream partner, he will be able to live without one. Once he’s found one, he wishes to live the rest of his life in a relationship with his – hopefully full circle – of friends.

The “half of a circle” individuals on the opposite side need an accomplice. Once they find the miserable creature, they will not let go! They’ll move to physically integrate with their victim to form one joyful circle… and do not allow them to experience the dreadful reality of living shoulder to shoulder! The Halves aren’t willing to compromise on anything less than starring one at the other from a zero distance throughout their lives. Their desire to be one with their other half and create a whole will only be satisfied by something less intimate.

A notable difference between the two is the decision to let go a partner. The full circle will typically be able to let go of a partner he lost his chemistry with. Half-circles on the other side will redefine the idea of having an chemistry’ with their partner to be: ‘I’m hanging onto this B..ST..RD. until I can replace him in a proper manner’.

Rami Beracha

Imagine the amazing dance when two “half a-circle”, and a ‘full-circle” attempt to compete without being aware of their distinct geometrical shapes. The Half is smiling and takes two steps in the direction of. The Full is a bit frightened by this unwanted invasion a bit scary. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. The problem is that he took half of his comfortable zone …. and, while the Half was certain that the Full had made an innocent mistake and the Full was sure of it, the Half gets angry and takes a step backward. They know why, but because they don’t have the correct terms to explain their madness and turn towards the wrong direction. They could have been saved by knowing that the one they are looking for is Half while the other is fully.

Rami Beracha

This essay doesn’t have any conclusive conclusion. However, it does contain some actions.

1. Find out who you really are

2. Find out who you are with

3. Be aware of the difference.

3. Respect differences!

One thing to remember is to live and enjoy life.