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This blog is written by Rami Beracha about venture capital world. Rami is co-founder of Sosa.

Communication issues are a major issue. I’d say it’s a dangerous hazard that we created .. It begins one second after the first contact is made with someone and ends with a massive explosion…

The biggest error we make is that, with no reason whatsoever, we nearly always assume complete alignment in both sides’ expectations without trying to pick our partner’s mind to determine what his expectations from us are. There’s one thing which we are in total accord with our partner in – he also doesn’t miss the chance to increase the gap between expectations. …. There’s no one in the world who can warn us to the upcoming clash.

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There are many causes for miscommunications, and most of them have to do with our personalities. People with square personalities are more likely to miscommunicate with liberal ones, and individuals who are aggressive will have a hard time aligning expectations with passive ones. It is simple to recognize the difference between squared from liberal, while aggressive is a distinct thing from passive.

What happens if they’re totally different? They’ll never be aware of it. You can imagine that there an in-between between them that exists however, we aren’t aware about it. This isn’t something anybody has researched, warned of, or discovered. !

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Let me introduce you, ladies and gentlemen the new type of personality that we all share: the FULL-CIRCLE personality versus those from the half circle! !

Note – This is behavioral guidance. After reading the following analysis, try to figure out which persona best represents your personality. At the same time you should determine who your partner in real life is. If you find that you’re of two different types that you can be happy. This could be the reason behind many of your differences. If you’re not the type you’re looking for, I’m sorry I can not help you understand why your relationships appear like crap.

And here we take a look…

Two kinds of people are human. Some of us fall into the “full-circle” category which refers to a person who is totally independent and doesn’t feel that needing a partner. Yes, he needs a partner, yes he wants a partner, and yes, he’s on a continuous search of a partner. Absolutely! All true … But, he can’t live without his dream partner until he locates one. He will continue to live his life in a relationship with his new partner once the time comes to find one.

Half-a-circle people make up the other half of the human race. When they find the miserable creature, THEY will not give up! They will work to physically join their victim into a happy circle. The Halves aren’t content with any less than gazing at one another from zero distance. Their desire to become one with their spouse and create a whole will only be fulfilled by things that aren’t as intimate.

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An interesting observation among the kinds is the way they choose to leave their partner. The full circle is likely to let go relatively quickly from an individual he no longer has his chemistry with. On the other hand, half-circle types redefine the concept of chemistry between couples to be – “I am holding on to this B..ST..RD., until I can replace him with a new upgrade.”

Imagine the dance where the half-circle and the full circle try to make their partner feel happy. The Half is able to take two steps forward past the comfortable zone. The sudden invasion of his personal space is slightly intimidating. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He took the Half out of his comfort zone . Even though the Half thinks that the Full made an innocent wrong move, and he kindly compensated by making another step forward, the Half becomes more worried and starts to feel angry. They don’t know why but they lack proper terms and are unable to describe it. Therefore, they head to the wrong place. They could have saved their lives knowing that one half and the other one is Full.

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Although there isn’t a single conclusion, there are some options you could adopt.

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1. Find out who you really are

2. Find out more about your partner

3. Be aware of the difference.

3. Be aware of the differences!

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One conclusion could be drawn: Live and let live.