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Rami Beracha blogs about the world of venture capital. Rami is the Co-Founder of Sosa.

The issue of miscommunication is serious. It could be a dangerous hazard that is our own fault. It starts just seconds after our first contact with someone and concludes with an amazing explosion…

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Our biggest mistake is that, without reason whatsoever, we nearly always assume complete alignment in the expectations of both sides without trying to discern our partner’s brain to figure out what his expectations of us are. There’s one thing, however, that we are completely in accord with our partner in and he doesn’t hesitate to miss an opportunity to widen this expectation gap …. We don’t even need anyone to alert us of the coming conflict.

There are many causes of communication issues, but they are generally due to our individual personalities. People with square personalities are more likely to be misinformed by people of a liberal mindset, and aggressive personalities will find it difficult to reconcile expectations with those of passive people. However, this is not difficult to spot We all know the distinction between liberal and squared and passive from active.

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But, they may not even realize they’re different. You can imagine that there an in-between between them yet we do not know about it. Nobody has ever found it or been warned of or studied it. !

Ladies and gentlemen let me introduce you to a different type of personality: The FULL versus the HALF CIRCLE personality! !

Note : This is a behavioral guide. If you go through the following analysis Try to figure out which type of personality most accurately describes you. Also, try to identify your partner in real life. If you find out that you are of two different types, as Bono states “we’re two, but not alike” If you do, then you ought to be happy. You may have found the root-cause of some of the differences between you! If you’re on the other side you’re of the same type and you’re not sure why, I’m sorry to say that I can’t help you understand the reason why your relationships appear to be shit…

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Here we are…

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Humans can be divided into two categories. A few of us fall under the “full-circle” category, which is an individual that can be completely independent and does not feel like he needs a partner. He does need a partner, yes that he would like to have a partner and yes, he’s in constant search for the right partner. Absolutely! All true … But, he will not be able to live without his dream partner until he finds one. He wants to spend his entire life with his beloved, and he is hopeful to be able to complete his circle.

The “half of a circle” individuals on the opposite side are those who need an accomplice. They are not going to let go of the savage creature after they have found it. To form a happy circle, they will almost integrate with their victim… but don’t let them do this bullshit of living side by side! The Halves aren’t content with anything less than looking at each other from a distance of zero distance for the rest. They will not accept something less intimate to fulfill their desire to be integrated with the other half and make up a whole.

One of the most fascinating observations between different types is how they decide to leave their partners. The entire circle would typically be the first to let go of a companion who has lost his chemistry quickly. The ‘half-a circle’ type , however, will redefine what it means to have the same chemistry as their partners. They’ll claim that they are ‘holding on to this B..ST..RD until they are able to replace him with a better upgrade.

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Imagine the amazing dance happening in the moment two people, a “half-a-circle” and an “full-circle” are trying to be the other’s partner, but not conscious of their distinct geometries. The Half takes two steps forward, way past the comfort zone of the Full who find this unexpected invasion of his personal space little too frightening. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. He pushed the Half out of his comfort zone . Although the Half assumes that the Full was innocent and made a error, and was kind enough to compensate by taking a second step forward, the Half gets more worried and starts to feel angry. They don’t know why, however, they don’t have the proper terminology and don’t know how to describe it. They go to the wrong place. They could have saved their lives if they understood the difference between the half and full.

While this piece is not intended to provide a complete outline, there are a few steps you can take.

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1. Find out who you are

2. Learn about your partner

3. Be aware of the differences.

3. Respect the different!

One of the conclusions is to live and let the life flow.